From Auntie Jenny

We just had a memorial service this last Saturday for my mom & now we heard this tragic news that my beloved nephew Rhett tragically died in Irvine of a motorcycle accident. I can't imagine losing him because I had plans to visit him this coming 1st week of December to catch up. My niece Iyra & I were just talking about how I miss him & can't wait to see him that she suggested I call. At 1st I was hesitant because he never answers but will text back sometimes. I am so relieved to say I'm glad I was able to leave him a voice message about how much I miss him, loved him and was so proud of him!

I was still in my teenage years when he was born from my eldest brother. I adored him, he was so cute with his curly hair. My nieces and nephews were my babies since being the youngest I was so excited to babysit them. Rhett was allergic to almost everything especially milk so he was on his special soy formula. I remember giving his parents a break, I was really excited to mix his formula to feed him in the middle of the night.

He was always itching and he would scratch because of his rashes. I tried to comfort him by cradling him till he would sleep. He was also so mischievous, stubborn at times and curious. At 5yrs old he would ask me a question then after you gave him an answer he wouldl say "but why, how come?" this went on and on during the day. "Rhett now you're annoying me" I'd tell him, but again he would say "why, how come I'm annoying" then he would giggle.

Rhett, had the most generous

was kind, thoughtful and sweet.

I remember we were at a department store and he saw a wallet that matched my purse, so he got it for me. He was about 8 yrs old, paid with his own money. "Auntie Jen-Jen, you always took good care of me and it's my way to thank you and because I love you" Up till now I kept that wallet as keepsake because it meant so much to me. Rhett was also very affectionate, sometimes when he was little, he'd ask me already climbing up to my bed "can I sleep with you tonight auntie Jen-Jen" and I'd cuddle with him.

I remember visiting him in his apartment.. he was so happy, got a great job & full of life. He loved buying new gadgets.. He was a baller.. he had expensive taste. Rhett was one who would make someone feel special.

Later though as he had gotten older he became a man with a few words, but still very respectful. Had some depression and almost became a recluse. He went back to live with my brother. For some reason he went to work, played occasional golf and went home. He had an awesome job and was good at it. I wasn't quite sure exactly, but all I know he designed stuff on the computer. My brother never really shared with me what was going on except he refused to socialized with anyone. He very seldom went to family get togethers. Every time I would visit my brother he would simply come out and kiss me on my cheek then would immediately keep to his room.

He went to LA to get treatment and seem to be doing well. All of us go through depression from time to time so I made myself a book of affirmations. When I found out what he was going through I decided to give him my collections. He said it was the best gift he ever received! I was so happy that it seemed to make an impact in his recovery. Rhett was blessed he was never without a job. He immediately got a new job in Irvine that he decided to remain there. He had a new life... made new friends, got a new apartment ...he was so proud that he would post photos of himself with all the wonderful meals he made for his friends. He was an amazing cook just like his grandma! We were so proud of him!!!

He was really making a new healthier and happy life for himself that he even posted this affirmation from my book of collection I gave him. Then this to happened to him... such a great loss.